Micro Practices Guide
Meaningful change begins with a simple pause.
The following 106 micro practices are designed to help you reconnect with yourself in less than five minutes. Whether you need calm, clarity, or simply a moment to breathe, choose the practice that meets you where you are today.
How to Make Micro Practices Part of Your Everyday Life
When many people think of self-care, they picture something that takes a lot of time or effort. But meaningful self-care doesn't have to be another item on your to-do list. Sometimes, it's as simple as taking a moment to reconnect with yourself.
Rather than choosing something completely new, pair a micro practice with a habit you already have. This makes it easier to remember and naturally fit into your day.
For example:
While your morning coffee is brewing, take three slow breaths before reaching for your phone.
While walking your dog or taking a short walk, leave your phone in your pocket and notice the trees, flowers, or sounds around you.
Below, you'll find micro practices organized by category—from sensory-based exercises and my favorite daily rituals to intentional ways to reconnect with your body, mind, and emotions. Choose one that resonates with you today.
Start small, stay consistent, and remember: the best micro practice is the one you'll actually do. Coming soon: A daily tracker to integrate a micro practice into your life.
Micro Practices for What You’re Feeling
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When everything feels like too much, your goal isn't to do more, but rather create enough space for your nervous system to settle.
Choose one of the following practices:
One Long Exhale: Take two sharp breaths in, then one long exhale. Repeat three times.
The Next Small Step: Ask yourself: “What is the next small thing I can do?” Not the whole list, just the next step.
Ground Through Your Feet: Place both feet firmly on the floor. Press down gently and notice the support beneath you.
The 3-2-1 Method (you can also find this in the resource library): Look around and notice 3 things around you, Acknowledge and reframe 2 thoughts or feelings, and then do 1 breathing technique or movement
Cold Water Rinse: Run cold water over your wrists for one minute.
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Overthinking often pulls you away from the present. These practices help you reconnect with what's happening right now.
Choose one of the following practices:
Brain Unload: Write every thought onto paper for two minutes. Don’t worry about organizing or solving anything on the list right now.
Pause to Notice & Ask: Notice what you're thinking about. Ask: “Is this happening right now, or is my mind anticipating something?”
Hold Something Warm: Wrap your hands around a mug of tea or coffee and focus only on the warmth.
Look Outside: Spend one minute watching clouds (noticing their shapes), trees (noticing the coloring), or people walking by (noticing their shoes).
Choose One Word: Pick one word to guide the rest of your day. Examples like trust, calm, ease, presence, or courage.
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Sometimes your mind isn't tired, but rather your emotional capacity is simply full. Give yourself permission to replenish instead of perform.
Choose one of the following practices:
Hand on Heart: Place one hand over your heart and take three slow breaths.
Ask What You Need: Instead of asking, “What should I do?” Ask, “What do I need right now?”
Sit in Silence: Find a quiet space and set a timer for two minutes. No phone or music. Just focus on your breath and the natural sounds around you.
Let Yourself Lean: Reach out to someone you trust, or simply allow yourself to receive support today.
Rest Without Earning It: Take five minutes to do absolutely nothing. No productivity required.
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When life has been busy, it's easy to lose touch with yourself. These practices help you reconnect with your own voice.
Choose one of the following practices:
Finish the Sentence: “Right now I feel...” Write whatever comes up.
Energy Assesssment: Create two columns on a piece of paper and title one “What has been bringing me energy lately?” and the other “What has been draining it?”
Take Yourself Outside: Go for a five-minute walk without your phone. Simply notice your surroundings.
Bloom Scroll: Instead of scrolling social media, spend a few minutes looking at flowers, gardens, nature, or beautiful landscapes of your favorite destination.
Remember Who You Are: Write down three things that make you feel most like yourself.
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Comfort isn't about escaping your feelings; it's about offering yourself care while moving through them.
Choose one of the following practices:
Wrap Yourself in Something Soft: Wrap yourself in a fuzzy or weighted blanket, wear your favorite sweatshirt or sweater. Then notice how comfort feels in your body.
Make Your Favorite Drink: Slow down enough to enjoy the process, not just the drink.
Listen to One Song You Love: Choose a song that feels calming, nostalgic, or grounding.
Practice Self-Compassion: Place your hand on your heart and quietly say: “I'm doing the best I can today.”
Notice Something Beautiful: Take a picture of something that catches your eye today.
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Clarity rarely comes from thinking harder. Clarity often comes after creating space.
Choose one of the following practices:
Prioritize One Thing: Instead of trying to solve everything, ask: “What's most important right now?”
Clarity Columns: In one column write: “What I know” and in the other “What I’m assuming.” Then take a moment to reflect and notice the difference.
Walk Before You Decide: Take a ten-minute walk before making a decision. Let your thoughts settle.
Imagine Your Future Self: Ask: “If I trusted myself completely, what would I do next?”
End With Intention: Complete this sentence: “Today, I'm choosing to...”
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Sadness doesn't always need to be fixed. Sometimes it simply needs space to be felt. These practices can help you offer yourself comfort while staying connected to your body.
Choose one of the following practices:
Hand on Heart: Place one hand on your heart and one on your belly. Take five slow breaths and simply notice how you're feeling without trying to change it.
Gentle Sway: Stand with your feet hip-width apart and slowly sway side to side for one to two minutes. Notice how the movement feels in your body.
Step Outside: Spend five minutes outdoors. Feel the air on your skin and notice one thing in nature that brings you a sense of peace.
Offer Yourself Kindness: Ask yourself: “What would I say to someone I love if they were feeling this way?” Then offer those same words to yourself.
Play One Comforting Song: Choose a song that feels soothing or hopeful. Sit quietly and simply listen.
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Frustration often creates tension and excess energy in the body. Before trying to solve the problem, give your body an opportunity to release some of that energy.
Choose one of the following practices:
Shake It Out: Stand comfortably and gently shake out your hands, arms, shoulders, and legs for 30–60 seconds. Notice if your body feels a little lighter afterward.
Shoulder Roll Reset: Slowly roll your shoulders backward ten times, then forward ten times. Take one long exhale.
Push Against a Wall: Place both palms against a wall and gently press for 10–15 seconds. Release and notice any shift in your body.
Walk It Off: Take a five-minute walk, focusing on the feeling of your feet making contact with the ground instead of replaying the situation in your mind.
Pause Before Reacting: Ask yourself: “What's underneath my frustration right now?” Sometimes frustration is protecting another feeling, like disappointment, hurt, overwhelm, or fear.
Micro Practices for the Senses
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Choose one of the following practices:
Watch the clouds for two minutes.
Notice five colors around you.
Look at a flower or plant and observe its details.
Light a candle and watch the flame.
Sit by a window and notice what's happening outside.
Take a photo of something beautiful that catches your eye.
Look through old photos that make you smile.
Watch the sunrise or sunset.
Declutter one small space and notice how it feels.
Find one thing you've never noticed in a familiar room.
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Choose one of the following practices:
Listen to your favorite song without multitasking.
Step outside and identify five different sounds.
Listen to birds for one minute.
Put on calming instrumental music.
Try a short sound bath or singing bowl recording.
Clap your hands together and notice how the sound fades.
Sit in complete silence for two minutes.
Listen to the rhythm of your own breathing.
Open a window and notice the sounds of your neighborhood.
Hum your favorite tune and feel the vibration in your body.
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Choose one of the following practices:
Brew a cup of coffee or tea and inhale the aroma before taking a sip.
Diffuse an essential oil you enjoy.
Smell fresh herbs while cooking.
Step outside after it rains and notice the scent in the air.
Light a favorite candle.
Smell fresh flowers.
Peel a citrus fruit and notice its fragrance.
Apply your favorite lotion slowly, paying attention to the scent.
Visit a garden or greenhouse and notice the different aromas.
Pause before eating and notice how your meal smells.
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Choose one of the following practices:
Hold a warm mug with both hands.
Wrap yourself in a cozy blanket.
Walk barefoot on grass or carpet.
Run your fingers over different textures around your home.
Give yourself a gentle hand massage with lotion.
Feel warm water over your hands while washing them.
Hug someone you love or hug a pillow.
Stretch slowly and notice how your muscles feel.
Pet your dog or cat and focus on the texture of their fur.
Hold a smooth stone or another calming object in your hand.
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Choose one of the following practices:
Eat one piece of fruit slowly, noticing each bite.
Slowly savor a piece of dark chocolate.
Take your first sip of coffee or tea without distractions.
Notice the flavors in your favorite meal before taking another bite.
Drink a glass of cold water and pay attention to how it feels.
Try a new herbal tea.
Eat something crunchy and notice the sound and texture.
Slowly enjoy a favorite summer fruit.
Make a nourishing snack just for yourself.
Practice eating one meal without your phone.
Coach Kim’s Favorite Micro Practices
These are the small moments I come back to again and again when I need to reconnect with myself.
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Slow morning coffee on my balcony before looking at my phone.
Making a cup of tea in the evening as a signal to slow down.
Dimming the lights at the end of the day to help my body transition into rest.
Using a calming pillow mist before bed.
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Bloom scrolling instead of doom scrolling by looking at photos of flowers, gardens, and nature.
Walking Milo without rushing and noticing the trees, flowers, and neighborhood around us.
Stepping outside for fresh air and taking a few slow breaths, even if it's only for two minutes.
Visiting a botanical garden or flower market and taking in the colors, scents, and peaceful atmosphere.
Caring for my plants and noticing new growth.
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Music-guided breathing with one of my favorite playlists.
Placing one hand on my heart and taking three slow breaths before responding when I feel overwhelmed.
Pilates as a way to reconnect with my body rather than just exercise.
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Taking a photo of something beautiful that catches my attention throughout the day.
Opening the windows to let in fresh air and reset the energy in my home.
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Writing down one thing that's on my mind instead of carrying it around all day.
Asking myself, "What do I need right now?" before asking, "What do I need to do?"